As kinky as you want to be, Auckland – 40

I’m an experienced Dominant, based in Auckland, available to adults aged 18+ who’ve been quietly replaying the same fantasy, night after night.
The one where you give up control. The one where someone finally notices how badly you want to be told what to do… or exactly how you’re going to be undone.

I’m a good-looking Kiwi guy in my 40s, clean, well-presented, and very aware of how I come across — calm on the surface, dirty-minded underneath. I take hygiene seriously, carry myself properly, and yes… I have a ridiculously high sex drive when the right dynamic is in play.

If things ever go there, I’m more than decent where it counts — but that’s not where the real power lies.

Nothing you bring to me will shock me. I’ve explored widely — mentally and physically — so don’t edit yourself to sound “normal.” Say what you actually want, I appreciate honesty over all when communication is concerned.

Just be aware: the more intense, involved, or demanding your fantasy is, the more that expectation is reflected in pricing. Depth, preparation, stamina, and focus all matter.

If you’re new, I’ll guide you — confidently, patiently, and without judgement. If you’re experienced, you’ll recognise the difference immediately. Rules are clear. Control is consistent. Anticipation is deliberate.

Consent, boundaries, limits, and safety are discussed thoroughly before anything happens, and aftercare and follow-up are always part of the experience. This is intentional, not sloppy.

Sessions can stay completely non-sexual, or may include hands or toys when chemistry and trust are earned. My pants stay on — entitlement gets you nowhere. Connection changes everything.

People often come to me already fantasising about things like:
• Power exchange and giving up control

• Strict roleplay and “what if” scenarios
• Impact or sensation play
• Teasing, denial, and drawn-out anticipation

• Verbal control or consensual humiliation

• Being watched, directed, or worshipping

I’m based in West Auckland and cannot host, but I’m happy to travel within the Auckland area. Availability is generally during the day, which suits those who value discretion.

If reading this stirred something familiar — that tight feeling in your chest, that wandering thought you’ve had before — don’t ignore it again.

Message me here on Locanto - if you want a fast reply send me your number.
Tell me what you keep day-dreaming about and Together for the right price I can make it a reality.

You’ve already done the imagining.
Now decide whether you’re brave enough to act on it.